"Opposites attract!"
"Yin and Yang!"
According to the ever popular Wikipedia, the definition stated:
"blah blah blah...like attracts like...blah blah blah"
Have you ever wondered what the Law of Attraction is? Has it ever been a curious question that rose in your mind when you were in doubt of what makes a relationship tick?
I have always wondered on how things work, and how attraction exists between man and woman. I've been curious for some time, and I have asked people and based on personal experience I have came up with my own hypothesis, maybe a conclusion, on how the law actually plays it's part.
Some amongst us (hypocrites) may say, that they don't look for looks in their partner, but, and I quote; "it's what's on the inside that counts." What do I say to this; bullshit. No offense. There is no way that you would meet up with an old dude with wrinkles looking fat now, would you? And for the male; would you meet a 25 year old "hairy" woman with no dressing sense? Hence, step one: the first impression.
Establishing a first impression counts; big time. Whether you pull it off right or wrong, results in what comes after. To me basically, I dress my casual self with my Edwin mid-cuts, Tropicana Life jeans and maybe throw on a Giordano polo tee. I assure myself to get a nice clean shave before meeting up this special someone, not to mention smelling good to match. P.S: This description ain't always what I wear when I meet a "special someone".
Step two: The meet up. The environment, the setup, the music, the food. It all plays a small part; individually. Together, they actually can throw you off your path, or maybe show you the bright light that shines at the end of the dark road you travel in. It doesn't have to be exclusive, but knowing your partner's favorites are bonus points.
Wise words from Sun Tzu's Art of War:
"If you know the enemy and know yourself you need not fear the results of a hundred battles."
And now we move on to step 4: the conversation. Every word uttered must be taken notice of, to establish yourself of being a good listener. No lady or gentleman would like to be ignored on the first meet up. Keep the conversation going, whether about friends, family embarrassing moments; anything to avoid each other from falling asleep. Even a canned drink would be enough to last hours worth of conversation; believe me, I know.
These steps just help the attraction process, but what exactly composes the attraction? Opposites attract to some, and similarities to others. Pulling off the pure "good-guy" look ain't gonna get you anywhere, nor the "I'm-all-bad-boy" look neither. Showing off your cash flow might get you places, but not to where you're suppose to head to.
What I'm trying to say in this article, is that I don't attract as many as you think. I choose who I wanna attract, who I think are special. I am unique in my own way, but still an average dude amongst others; and it's just the way I like it. Attraction works as you put yourself as how you are. The steps above are just helping tools on what you can help yourself with.
P.S: I'm not setting an example, just being a curious cat.
-tHe UgLy rEtArD-
